Being in love is not the foundation for a happy marriage. It is the icing on the cake. The foundation is love, which is a decision to commit oneself to another person.

Love is something you do for someone else, not something you do for yourself.

Real love is a selfless choice to put another's needs before your own.

Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another.

Understanding the primary love language of your spouse and choosing to speak it regularly can make a world of difference in your relationship.

Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment.

Apology is a sign of strength, not weakness.

You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.

Love is the most important thing in the world, but baseball is pretty good, too.

The way we love others and ourselves is a choice, it's an action, it's a behavior. And, we can change our behaviors.

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate