To bring about change in behavior, you don’t try to change the behavior (which is the symptom) but the attitude (which is the heart of the matter).

Reality discipline means you allow your child to learn from the natural consequences of his own actions.

The way you respond to your child’s behavior has more of an impact than the behavior itself.

In reality, you don’t really manage your children. You manage you!

Your goal isn’t to become a perfect parent, but a good-enough parent.

When you start doing things differently, you’re going to make waves. Be ready for them.

Consistency is your greatest ally as a parent and your child’s greatest enemy.

Within a family, actions—and inactions—have consequences.

The way to a child’s mind is through his heart, and inflicting guilt is not the route to take.

The key to changing your child’s behavior is to identify his currency.

If the parent doesn’t take charge, then by default, the child does.

Have a New Kid by Friday: How to Change Your Child's Attitude, Behaviour & Character in 5 Days